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you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR. "I am unique" Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive. How to Get Along with Me Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me. Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself. Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision. Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little. Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting! What I Like About Being a Four my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level my ability to establish warm connections with people admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor being unique and being seen as unique by others having aesthetic sensibilities being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me What's Hard About Being a Four experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved feeling guilty when I disappoint people feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me expecting too much from myself and life fearing being abandoned obsessing over resentments longing for what I don't have Fours as Children Often have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original game s are very sensitive feel that they don't fit in believe they are missing something that other people have attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc. become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce) Fours as Parents help their children become who they really are support their children's creativity and originality are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings are sometimes overly critical or overly protective are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele The Enneagram Made Easy Discover the 9 Types of People Harper SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages You liked the test? so please don't forget to RATE it... but remember! it had only two questions!!! ;-) you wanna know MORE? so check out, what Wikipedia says about your type... ...even more you'll find in Google or do you prefer to You are not completely happy with the result?! You chose BY Would you rather have chosen: AY (EIGHT) CY (SIX) BX (NINE) BZ (FIVE)

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People I hate: part 1

I think this might be a good place to get things off my chest.

I'll start with my dad's girlfriend. Then I'll work my way up to the people I really really hate. There aren't that many of them.

Carol; my dad's girlfriend. I'm not sure if she's actually still his girlfriend, the whole situation is real sketchy. She's supposed to be looking for someplace to move out to, but that's taken at least a year by now. My Dad's too fucking nice. She a bitch, she makes him miserable, and she blames every problem in the relationship on him, she's a fucking ukranian princess, but he still wants to be the nice guy and not throw her out on her ass. I say her ass could use some bruising.

Her life is ruled by fear. She gets the flu shot because "it just makes me feel so much safer." Bullshit. The flu shot is for the elderly or otherwise immunocompromised. Either you're admitting that you're well over sixty, and not "only as young as you feel" or, I don't know, just admit that you're full of shit and have an anxiety problem. She won't drive after dark either. She cripples herself, with fear. And blames everyone else.

She's been gaining weight since I met her. She eats sweets uncontrollably. She buys every kind of excercise machine in existence, but bitches and complains when she has to walk more than half a block from where dad parks the car.

She thinks pres. Bush is the most wonderful, intelligent president the US has ever had.

She thinks oprah is the end all, be all authority on all things.

She went ballistic on me when I was living with them, over leaving my shampoo and conditioner in the bathtub. This is apparently unnacceptable. Neither is forgetting laundry in the machines overnight. What would you do if I did that? she askes me. Well, Carol, I said, I would remove the laundry and put it in the laundry basket, or in the dryer, depending on whether or not it's wet.

She went ballistic on me when I pointed it out the day she forgot laundry in the machines overnight.

And she goes around telling her and dad's mutual friends what a nasty person he is, while my dad refuses to stoop to that and so gets stuck with a the bad mouthing. I hear my mom did the same thing.

I hope for my dad's sake he gets her out of the house soon. I hope I don't have to invite her to my wedding.